4 friends discover a piece of North India
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Translated into English.

MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
And I also think that a lot of Indians wouldn’t even ask themselves these kinds of questions if they’d had the choice for even 18 seconds… No matter what type of vaccine…
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
I’m replying on behalf of Richard (but he’s the one writing) because he: “has reached the message limit that can be posted in 24 hours. We invite you to post your next messages in 24 hours.”

Does this mean there’s a “daily message quota”? Guess I’ll have to chill 😅
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Does this mean there’s a “daily message quota”?

It’s because Richard just signed up.
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SA Sawadeebaht Regular ·
You're right, Kate—some people do take it a bit too far. But they’re not entirely wrong either, because even with every flu vaccination campaign, there’s a spike in deaths. Just like with medications, the product isn’t harmless.

I haven’t been to India, partly because of the dirt and noise. You should know it’s not that rare for some travelers to come back with pretty unusual and persistent illnesses. That said, I *love* discovering this country through travel journals, and this one will definitely stand out—maybe because of the combined talents behind it.
Toujours une fois. Au moins.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
We talked about the festival at the beginning of the post about Bundi. But maybe you're asking what it's like when I lose it 😉

While we were on the terrace of our guesthouse, the neighbors were plugging in their stereo systems on their own terraces. Music blasting from all sides with different tracks. Not the soft Indian music you’d expect! No, some kind of techno cacophony punctuated by firecrackers that made us jump. And this went on until late at night while we were brainstorming techniques to fall asleep. Richard told me: "You’ve got to embrace the noise" 😕 And it started again early in the morning! It lasted 2 out of the 3 days in Bundi.

Yeah, I did ask what it’s like when you lose it... But I get that you don’t want to share that, and I respect your choice.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Hello everyone,

Chandni Chowk! When I read this post and see the photos, I think to myself that the general atmosphere hasn’t changed in decades—or even longer. Personally, I’ve never been there. I’ve always skipped Delhi. I’ve only passed through to catch a bus, a train, or a plane...

But I’ve always been intimidated by big cities, especially the most populated ones in India. Fear of getting lost, concerns about pollution... I’m still waiting for the right opportunity to go with a French or Indian friend...

That said, I know Chandni Chowk through the Indian literature I’ve read a lot of. I’m talking about contemporary authors. I just finished "The Peacock Throne"—which I highly recommend—and Richard’s description, though brief, perfectly captures the overall vibe of the place. I emphasize "overall vibe" because so much has changed in India—not necessarily for the better—over the past 16 years that I’ve been slowly exploring the subcontinent in every direction.

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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
I hated the Taj Mahal. Hated it? No. It left me cold—that’s fitting—like everything that’s overblown. The love story behind its construction—so stubborn and unshakable—has always made me laugh, even outraged me when it was really just a display of power and megalomania. So many deaths for this monument! Starting with its architect, murdered to ensure he’d never recreate anything like it anywhere else.

On the other hand, I loved the Red Fort and the mausoleum of I'timad-ud-Daulah, also called the Baby Taj by Westerners. Built for her father by Nur Jahan, the wife of Jahangir (father of the famous Shah Jahan, who commissioned the Taj Mahal), I adored its simplicity, its delicacy, and its refinement.

What a woman, Nur Jahan! Ambitious and scheming, she even ended up ruling the empire in place of her husband, who was consumed by alcohol and drugs.

I spent several days in Agra, and what I particularly enjoyed was the old, non-touristy part of the city—loud, chaotic, and full of life—the Jama Masjid...
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Yes, I did take the liberty of asking what happens when you lose your temper... But I understand you don’t want to share that, and I respect your choice.

Oh, nothing special! Just a bad mood, wanting to leave, to isolate myself… I just asked Richard, and he answered: “a pain” But it doesn’t last long. I’m way more tolerant when traveling than at home!
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
😉😉😉
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
J.16 / 17 / 18. Jaisalmer. The Thar Desert

Another long journey to reach Jaisalmer from Jodhpur. This is our last trip with Ajay since we’ll then fly to Delhi. As we enter the city, we drive alongside an endless line of military buildings. While Jaisalmer is the gateway to the Thar Desert, it’s also a strategic outpost less than 100 km from Pakistan.

Ajay drops us off in the lower town at the foot of the fortress, where a tuk-tuk from the hotel is waiting. It’s time to say goodbye. We settle the bill—everything’s fine. Thanks, handshakes, and I risk a slightly more intimate gesture by putting my arm around his shoulder. We got along well with Ajay, and his careful driving really reassured us. Quite reserved at the start of the trip, he became much more relaxed later on, though the language barrier still kept us from deepening our connection.

Our accommodation in Jaisalmer—Diamond Guest House—is inside the fortress, in the upper town, a bit like Carcassonne, which French travel guides often compare it to. “The Carcassonne of the desert!” 😉 But in hindsight, I should probably hold back a little—I learned after returning that a twinning project between the two cities was under consideration.



View from our accommodation’s window:



All four of us really liked the city. The golden stone fortress towering over the hinterland, the narrow streets of the upper town—quite tidy, lined with tourist shops but free from traffic. The lower town, more typical of India, with its usual hustle and bustle, but buzzing with daily life, and we enjoyed wandering through it.







By the end of the trip, we’re less obsessed with sightseeing. We limit ourselves to two places: the Jain temple Chandraprabhu and the Patwah-ki-Haveli. The Chandraprabhu temple, tucked away in a small street in the heart of the fortress, is stunning, but to be honest, our visit was spoiled by the constant solicitations from the priests in the sanctuary. One of them hands Nathalie and me a small lamp to perform a blessing ritual with us. We place an offering of 100 rupees on a small tray. “Five hundred,” the priest grumbles, giving us a dark look that Nathalie quickly returns. We turn on our heels. Inside, I’m angry—this man of the gods disrespected us. The rest of the visit turns into a game of cat and mouse between the brahmins and us. Hard to get swept up in the spirituality of the place under those conditions.





On our way down to the lower town to visit the haveli, several shoeshiners call out to me. “Shoes?” I politely refuse each time. To me, this little job symbolizes class humiliation. But a young boy, more persistent than the others with a gentle gaze, finally convinces me—plus, my shoes are really filthy... We sit down. I feel a little awkward. « What’s your name? Krishna. Great name! » He smiles. He looks at my worn-out shoes and starts stitching the tips back together, then polishes them with precise, vigorous movements. “Difficult job? Yes, but it depends on the tourists.” Once he’s finished, he tells me his price: One thousand and five hundred. It’s obviously an inflated rate, but he says it without malice, just trying his luck, I think. Still, I give him a generous amount. He smiles and thanks me warmly, hugging me. We often lose sight of the value of money in India. But with that sum, he can have at least five meals. And besides, I barely recognize my shoes—they’re repaired and polished. So thank you, and... Hare Krishna.



We end the afternoon quietly with a visit to the Patwah-ki-Haveli, a magnificent home of a 19th-century Jain merchant. A dive into the luxurious and peaceful daily life of those who’ve succeeded materially. Here, as elsewhere.



A few more steps through this city, admittedly touristy, but I can’t put it any other way—a city that gives you space. Yes, we felt good in Jaisalmer. Tomorrow... the desert?

KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Portraits in Jaisalmer









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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
But I’ve always been scared of big cities, the most populated ones in India. Afraid of getting lost, worried about the pollution... I’m still waiting for the right opportunity to go with a French or Indian friend...

Get lost? It happened to us, several times. I remember a real moment of shared loneliness in Chandi Chowk. But pretty quickly, an Indian (who wasn’t trying to sell us anything) helped us out. I was often afraid of losing my friends. Taking photos while the others moved ahead, turning around, looking left and right, watching out for cow dung, the moped going full speed, the tuk-tuk weaving through traffic, reckless bikes, the guy trying to sell me something, the one staring at me, the horns blasting in my ears... Plus, I refused to walk around with my phone, so I kept a business card from the guesthouse on me, like a kid! Of course, it was Richard who’d say: "Don’t lose sight of me! Keep an eye on me! You’ll be glad to have these photos later...!"

As for pollution in Delhi, I had a sore throat the whole time and thought I was coming down with a cold. The permanent haze hanging over the city is partly from vehicle exhaust.

Despite all that, Delhi is a city you shouldn’t skip.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Despite all that, Delhi is a city you shouldn’t skip.

I don’t disagree, but you were four and still young, and yet you freaked out at times... Oh well, as long as I can’t find anyone to visit Delhi with me, I won’t go. It’s not so much about needing protection as it is about not feeling alone...
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
This was my fourth time in Jodhpur this summer, and it turned out to be one of the highlights of the trip, even though Udaipur is exceptional. I also took away from this trip that you can have a different perception of places you’ve already visited depending on the context, the events, the people you’re traveling with, and so many other factors. In other words, the experience is different every time, and you can feel like you’re rediscovering a place in a whole new light.

I can confirm that. I also love Jodhpur, which I prefer over Jaipur and Udaipur. I’ve spent several extended stays there. For me, 3 days in a city is when I don’t want to linger... And each time, it was different, and each time, it was magical... And, as you said, I loved Pondicherry dozens of times, then I hated it. I’d like to go back this year to see what feeling—if any—resurfaces.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Here we are in Fatehpur, the short-lived capital of the Mughal Empire built in the 16th century in just over 10 years.

Careful—don’t confuse Fatehpur Sikri (the one we’re talking about here) with Fatehpur, which is also in Uttar Pradesh but nearly 400 km southeast of the first.

less by the rules, more by anticipation.

Spot on! That’s exactly it. The moment you think a horrific collision is inevitable—*poof!*—a little turn of the wheel, and everyone keeps going without even grazing each other. Because everyone instinctively knows what the other is about to do. That anticipation of what the other will do has always amazed me.

we all feel a little tired.

No wonder! Just reading about it leaves me breathless. Not mocking you at all—it’s just that I couldn’t keep up with that pace in a single day.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
We imagine that the south (at least Tamil Nadu) will be less touristy than Rajasthan—well, that’s what we think. Either way, we’re hoping to discover an India that’s still different from the north (trip planned for January 2025) 🙂

Less touristy? Not sure, depending on the places... And lots and lots of Indian tourists from the north, often unbearable because of their incivility or arrogance—the new rich. But yes, you’ll definitely discover a totally different India.
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Oh well, as long as I don’t find anyone to visit Delhi with me, I won’t go. It’s not so much about being protected as it is about not feeling alone...

I get you. For me, a trip has to be shared. If I don’t have a shoulder to tap and say, "Hey, did you see how beautiful that is?" I find it less interesting. So what do you do if you don’t feel like traveling alone rather than skipping the trip? Do you book with an agency? Hire a private guide? Look for a travel buddy on a forum? It’s not easy... We were really lucky to click so well and be on the same wavelength—something that wasn’t guaranteed at all, especially in a "difficult" country. And everything just fell into place without anyone feeling like they were making an effort.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Oh! Ranakpur, the marvel! But where I got attacked by bees. Over 120 stingers that the doctor at the Jain hospital—where the locals took me—removed from my skull and face. I looked like an extraterrestrial monster. "You should be dead," he told me. Two days later, I was skipping around Dungarpur.

There, I’ve finished reading everything, caught up on my backlog, and I’m up to date now
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
There we go, I’ve finished reading everything, caught up on my backlog, and I’m up to date now

So let’s head into the Thar Desert 😉

The Thar Desert: a sandy ecozone covering 200,000 km², about a third the size of metropolitan France. How could we pass it up when it’s so far from home? Of course, the term “méharée” doesn’t fool any of us. We all know what these organized visits to “authentic, unique experience” places are really like—right in the heart of whatever you want. “After a camel trek, you’ll live a timeless moment sharing a meal prepared by your guide amid the silence of the dunes while dreaming under a sunset, before falling asleep in the desert’s serenity.” Yeah, yeah, yeah...

So what do we do? Do we turn it down? (Ref. “Les Tontons Flingueurs”.)

Meeting on the rooftop terrace of our guesthouse. We decide, of course, to take the méharée offered by Hamid, the hotel manager, especially since the reviews we’d read about the service were overwhelmingly positive. A one-and-a-half-hour camel trek, then dinner with our guide until nightfall (we won’t be sleeping there) just for the four of us. https://www.tripadvisor.fr/Attraction_Review-g297667-d20112228-Reviews-Diamond_Camel_Safari_jaisalmer-Jaisalmer_Jaisalmer_District_Rajasthan.html

Riding a camel is an experience that’s both pleasant—because the animal’s gait creates a gentle sway—and challenging, since the width of its flanks stretches your thighs to the max and pulls on your adductors. We slowly enter the Thar Desert, which at first looks more like a sandy steppe. By the end of the trek, we finally climb massive dunes of a beautiful gray, though they’re nothing like the golden ones of the Sahara. Prim, our camel driver, sets up camp and prepares the meal while we climb to the crest to take photos. Watching the camp far below, I’m reminded of a passage from Jack Kerouac’s “On the Road.” Like the novel’s hero, I start running barefoot down the steep slope at full speed. Exhilarating. I’m 20 again!.. And my legs hurt.



Dinner shared with our guide and the hotel driver around a fire, in the cool of the falling night, is really enjoyable. We chat with Prim about his work and his bond with his animals. When the talking stops, only the crackling of the campfire breaks the desert’s silence. We return by jeep after dark, and the headlights reveal all sorts of nocturnal wildlife crossing the trail: rabbits, gazelles, a lone camel... A great experience, then, this “desert crossing,” as long as you find a service that guarantees a small-group outing in a truly isolated spot. And yes, the Thar Desert can get pretty crowded.



KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Prim roasted these weird things for us to snack on before the meal (for the pre-dinner drinks, you know 😛) Never seen these before! They have the texture of Chinese shrimp chips, they're colorful, and they're good (well, I think they're chemical ) The meal was delicious, I'm in awe! Over a small wood fire between two stones, in a pot that must've been a thousand years old, he whipped up a royal dinner for us.



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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Well, here you go, Christelle! The Thar Desert! The circle is complete! Sorry, Richard, for this aside—we were talking about this desert in Solène40’s (gorgeous) travel journal about the Sultanate of Oman.

I took the plunge in 2019 for a night in this famous desert, and I have very fond memories of it because, while it *is* very touristy, 98% of the tourists in our group during this little escape were... Indian. For us, that was like a local immersion and a chance for some really interesting conversations, since most of them spoke English without any issues. It wouldn’t have been the same if our companions for the evening had been German or Belgian...

On top of that, our guide had arranged a luxury version for us, at my request... I’m all for the desert, but there’s got to be a minimum level of comfort! So, I’d recommend it, but make sure you nail down the details of what’s included.

"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Hi Montagnard, I’m still not very quick on the forum yet—takes me a while to get the hang of the beast. Still, I’m really happy to see that our little two-person travel journal with Kate is sparking some interest. I’ve also noticed a lot of messages from Marien, who seems to be reading it very carefully—thanks for that! As for the Thar Desert, you’ve picked up on my mixed feelings. It’s always the same thing: you want to have the place you’ve heard about all to yourself, without the tourists, like you could have a truly unique experience. But at the same time, you know that’s not possible unless you travel in a completely different way, without going through the commercial intermediaries needed for that kind of discovery. So, you know upfront that the "camel trek in the Thar Desert" will be marked out and calibrated to give you the illusion of the desert. I understood that going in—I wasn’t fooled—but that didn’t stop me from having a really beautiful moment, feeling just a little of what the desert holds in terms of both human life and the animals that live in that space. So, yes, like you, I’d recommend this little tourist adventure—it’s good for the soul, especially since we had the wisdom (or luck) to stumble upon a completely honest offer that let us experience it just the four of us.
SO Solene40 Globetrotter ·
Yep Bruno, Richard nailed exactly the hesitation I had before the Wahiba Sands. Sure, I wanted to go to a desert, but not to end up in the middle of a "tourist traffic jam" 😄. I’m definitely going to visit Jaisalmer one day (since it seems to be a unanimous favorite), but the Thar Desert—we’ll see depending on the conditions.

And Kate, hats off for your portraits—I’m totally loving them 👍🏼👍🏻😍

See you soon for the next part
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Jaisalmer for a day (because it seems to be one of those places everyone agrees on)

I have mixed feelings about Jaisalmer.

I went there in 1995. The sun was shining, tourist pressure was very low, it was my first trip to India, and I loved it.

I went back 15 years later. The rain washed out the colors, visitors had multiplied, and the Jaisalmer I remembered had vanished.
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PA Pagaljavab Globetrotter ·
Our accommodation in Jaisalmer – Diamond Guest House – is located inside the fortress, in the upper town, a bit like in Carcassonne, which French travel guides often compare it to. "The Carcassonne of the desert!"

The two cities have actually started a twinning partnership, and Carcassonne is sharing its expertise in fort conservation with Jaisalmer, I believe. And I’m not saying that just because I’m originally from Carcassonne!
KO Kola Globetrotter ·
An epic with meticulous descriptions that owe much to memory... and so little to sight, unfortunately hindered. 😉

A fresco painted with daylight or twilight, a kaleidoscope of portraits, temples, deserts, or street scenes... so, so much more beautiful against a white background! When talents come together on a blank page like two dancers tightly entwined, twirling across the floor without ever stepping on each other’s toes...

When all around, the passionate, the devoted, the subtle connoisseurs return one by one, recognize each other, greet each other, linger, and applaud the duo’s virtuosity...

... then you can say a travel journal is a success 🙂
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Attila, it's true that when we return to places we loved, we're often disappointed. We expect to feel the same emotions, but it's just not possible. That said, India must have changed a lot in 15 years...
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Kola, thanks for your kind words. Yeah, it's true I forgot my glasses—I didn’t take any notes. I did it all from memory once I got back! !
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Forgetting your glasses is a real pain. Richard realized it while he was wearing one of my pairs and everything was blurry! 🤪 He thought it was because of the cold he’d been fighting for a few days. But we were already halfway between Béziers and Toulouse airport... Luckily, he had his sunglasses, and a pair of reading glasses bought at the airport did the trick somewhat.
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 19 / Day 20. Return to Delhi

Back to Delhi with SpiceJet. At Jaisalmer Airport, the security officer confiscates my e-cigarette. "Forbidden in India," he tells me with a smile. Okay. "One year in prison and/or 100,000 rupees (1,270 €)", according to what I read after returning to France. Did I have a narrow escape? 😕 We arrive in Delhi in the early evening. The guesthouse Lake View Luxury Apartment is well located in a very quiet street but close to Connaught Place. There’s a lot of activity in the surrounding streets, with crowds everywhere. Tomorrow, January 26th, is Republic Day, India’s republic celebration and a public holiday.

What to do on this last day in Delhi? We could go see the big military parade at India Gate, especially since Prime Minister Modi has made our French President the guest of honor in the name of Franco-Indian friendship. Portraits of the two men arm in arm are everywhere along the main avenues.





In the end, we head to the opposite side of the official festivities, to the south of the city, to visit the beautiful site of the Qutb Minar. It’s actually a vast Islamic religious and funerary complex dating back to the 12th/13th centuries. The Qutb Minar itself is a massive red sandstone minaret that dominates the entire site. The place, which feels like both an archaeological zone and a park, is peaceful and relaxing on this sunny morning. We spend a good two hours there.







A tuk-tuk ride later, and we’re off to the Lotus Temple, a stunning piece of contemporary architecture dedicated to the Bahá’í faith. The visit is free, but there’s a huge crowd—pilgrims and tourists, mostly Indian—and the line stretches for several hundred meters.

We wisely decide to grab a bite at a small open-air eatery. By the end of the meal, the crowd is still just as big. We’re about to give up when a man calls out to us, "Foreigners, by here." We skip ahead of everyone. Bruno and I feel a bit awkward, but no one seems to mind that we’ve cut the line. I can’t imagine the same thing happening in France!!! The temple, shaped like a lotus, is absolutely stunning—majestic and elegant. I know a bit about the Bahá’í faith through an Iranian friend exiled in France. Founded only in the 19th century by the prophet Baha'u'llah, it seeks to blend the three major monotheistic religions. It’s a deeply spiritual faith that emphasizes tolerance, brotherhood, and peace.







At the end of the day, we do some shopping at an emporium. These are state-run stores that display and sell all kinds of Indian handicrafts, often of very good quality: fabrics, clothing, jewelry, sculptures, etc. In this type of store, prices are fixed—no bargaining, in principle. Our last meal is at a restaurant in Connaught Place. Very touristy, quite expensive, and far from exceptional. Anyway, Connaught Place is, in my opinion, the least interesting of all the areas we’ve explored in Delhi.
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
We jump the queue. Bruno and I are a bit uncomfortable, but no one seems to mind that we cut in line like this

Just deserts, I told the boys, as Indians had regularly pushed past us. One day, one of them literally shoved me to get in front of me when I was right in front of the metro ticket counter.
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
The Prime Minister Modi made our President of the Republic his guest of honor in the name of Franco-Indian friendship. All over the main avenues, portraits of the two men arm in arm.

Few French people were fooled by this big show, but many Indians were. Indians really love the "Grand Spectacle." One needs money, the other needs warplanes. Those famous Rafales, which even my little neighborhood grocer in Calcutta mentioned to me when he found out I was French...

And then, it was just a "stopgap," since Macron was only invited because "the one originally invited" had REFUSED the invitation.😏 How embarrassing!
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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
We jump the queue. Bruno and I are a bit uneasy, but no one seems to mind that we cut in line like this.

Wasn’t it free for locals and paid for foreigners?
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
No, we paid for our entry. It seemed normal—some guy was pacing the line, called us over, and waved us forward.
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AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Probably, though, India must have changed a lot in 15 years...

No, India actually changes very little compared to other countries.

It’s more that *I’ve* changed...

I think the weather played a big part in this mixed second impression. Jaisalmer is a city made for sunlight, not rain.🙂
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JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
Hello to both of you (or all four of you).

I’m joining in this chorus of praise, which shows no sign of stopping as more seasoned travelers find their way back.

In your story and the little grumbles that come with it, I recognize the very reasons I’ve always given up on visiting this country. And yet, it’s not for lack of hearing enthusiastic feedback personally. Among those reasons, some can’t decently be mentioned, but I’ll highlight the noise. After traveling through several countries where the main purpose of a car seems to be its horn, I’ve become allergic to it. Now I’ve turned into one of those grumpy old folks who can’t stand noise after making so much of it myself!

I really enjoyed reading your posts, especially when you share your flaws and failures. I hope no one comes along to criticize your rants or disappointments because your stories feel genuine, sincere, and authentic.

While many travel journals are disappointing in more ways than one, this one has a successful alchemy. Honestly, I have just one wish: that the four of you set off again together.
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks for your message. You're absolutely right. India isn't a restful country, but it still radiates a real energy. If the word "dépaysement" has any meaning, it's definitely in India that it applies. Tomorrow, in the last post I'll send, I've tried to sum up this adventure with three others in this country that's so hard to grasp. And yes, the chemistry between us worked out. That's why we're heading back together in January—this time to the South. Thanks again for your comment. Have a good evening.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Hello Kola, hello everyone

An epic with meticulous descriptions that owe much to memory... and so little to sight, unfortunately hindered. 😉

A fresco painted with daylight or twilight, a kaleidoscope of portraits, temples, deserts, or street scenes... so, so much more beautiful against a white background! When talents take flight together on a blank page like two dancers tightly entwined, twirling across the floor without ever stepping on each other's toes...

When all around, the passionate, the devoted, the subtle connoisseurs return one by one, recognize each other, greet each other, linger, and applaud the duo's virtuosity...

... then you can say a travel journal is a success 🙂

Yes, yes, yes, a hundred times yes. But what I miss in this journal is interaction. Though the authors aren’t to blame—they had the courage to start their journal in the middle of the desert. Many people still don’t know this forum has reopened, or maybe they’ve drifted away? So I’ll take the liberty of sharing my own emotions while reading these pages. I relived my visits to Rajasthan, and it’s always an emotional moment to revisit memories, whether they’re good or bad. I didn’t experience Rajasthan the way you did. Your journal reflects my own approach to India. I envy you—and many tourists—for being able to keep that distance from India and Indians. I, on the other hand, fell into the pot, and it’s terrible. I’m no longer French. I mean, I don’t think like a French person anymore, yet I’m not Indian either. I’ll never be Indian. I’ll never, ever reason like an Indian. You’d have to be named Sonia Gandhi for that. I’m stuck between two chairs, and it’s very uncomfortable. I’ll never fully understand Indians. And Indians will never fully understand me. Someone said that India hasn’t changed *much* in 15 years. That’s a big topic of discussion and disagreement with a friend who’s a seasoned traveler in India. Maybe it’s the things a tourist’s eyes don’t perceive in a few weeks that have changed. Or the difference between the North and the South? I’d say India has changed deeply, seen from the inside, when you live there. Especially since the "Covid years" and our inability to visit. What hasn’t changed—or barely—are the mentalities. Though not all of them... Some have evolved in what we Westerners would call "the right direction." For example, the standard of living—see Indian tourism—the behavior of couples in public, arranged marriages, to name just one major example. But others, on the contrary, have evolved in the "wrong direction." For example, intolerance, animosity, and interreligious tensions. Again, just one example, but a major one!
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Hi Marien 33 and hello everyone, First off, thanks for your post—it really adds to this thread, which has been pretty quiet, as you rightly pointed out. I think you nailed the reasons for that. From what I gather, you seem to really understand India from the inside after living there. For the average tourist—like me and my friends—it’d be pretty pretentious to think we could deeply feel a country as complex as India. Our perspective was obviously just scratching the surface. Like I said in the last post Kate’s going to share, we only "brushed the elephant’s back." Your take on how India has (or hasn’t) changed in 15 years matches what I think too. Rapid economic growth, a growing middle class, more engineers and researchers, better infrastructure—India’s moving fast and strong. But like all so-called "emerging" countries, it’s running with one leg shorter than the other. Endemic poverty, limited access to healthcare, still-too-low school enrollment rates... And then there’s the persistence of pretty archaic mental and social structures—though I’m not trying to judge or lecture from a Western perspective. The truth is, those same structures also lead to behaviors and practices we’ve left behind: strong family bonds, a certain detachment from material things, and a kind of patience in the face of life’s events. But to wrap up this (maybe too long) post, what worried me most about Indian society was the intense tension between religious communities and a form of intolerance. It’s not new, of course, but it seems to me that Modi’s rise to power—this nationalist-populist—has only made things worse between groups, especially Hindus and Muslims in the country. The guy who says, "To be Indian is to be Hindu!" "
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Richard and I really enjoy your posts. Just like the delightful read your site is—I especially remember this quite personal passage that really amused me 😉 Chottannikkara... to oneself
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Day 21. Goodbye India

We left the hotel early this morning for a flight scheduled at 10:30 AM. Just to be safe, we decided to give ourselves plenty of time. The taxi ride cost us 650 rupees—1,800 on the way there! We’re getting better at this. In the airport’s vast halls, I reflect on these three weeks spent in India. The human adventure was a success. The group worked well together, without a single hitch. Everyone seemed to find their place without ever feeling left out or frustrated. We were often amazed by India’s beauty, and we laughed a lot—always a good sign of a healthy group dynamic.

But what to remember about India and its people? How do you describe a country with a thousand facets, overflowing with energy? A young, noisy population, always on the move, and often very friendly? The sometimes challenging coexistence of all its religions? The massive traffic jams where, somehow, everyone keeps moving without too much stress? The spaces where humans and animals coexist in harmony? The dirtiness of the streets? The generally cordial but often money-driven interactions with people? The stark social contrasts? The very spicy food? The brightly colored women’s clothing? Of course, all of that—but I fear I’m just scratching the surface of the usual clichés about this strange, dizzying country that’s so hard to grasp. We managed well, I think. We knew how to travel. But we’re not backpackers, and it was difficult for us to go deeper in our connection with the people and this culture.

In the end, we only skimmed the elephant’s back. But even that brief contact makes us want more—deeper, more meaningful encounters. Maybe one day…

MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Richard and I really enjoy your posts. Just like the delightful read on your site, which includes this quite personal passage that really amused me 😉 Chottannikkara... until oneself

Thanks so much, Kate...
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RJ Rjulie95 Globetrotter ·
Thanks for this great time in India 😉
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks for this great time in India 😉

Thanks so much for reading.
AT Attila Globetrotter ·
Your conclusion (like your whole travel journal) explains why I said India hasn’t changed...😉

I could’ve written the same thing in 1995 as in 2010.

Besides, Kate’s photos remind me of the India I know. Not a very different country.

On the surface and as a tourist.

Deep down, I hope mentalities are evolving. 🙂
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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Goodbye India, and thank you both for this magnificent travel journal. The prose is excellent, the pace engaging, the photos stunning, and the emotions well captured. It brought back my memories, a touch nostalgic. For a first attempt, it’s a masterstroke! Can’t wait for the second trip—I’ll follow it with as much attention as if I return to India, it’ll be in the area you’re planning.
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
And I’ll be thinking of you while enjoying an apéritif 😛😉
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Whoa, if we start mixing up the conversations, we’ll lose our bearings! Drinks at Le Chai Massala? 😄
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks so much, Bruno, for your really flattering comment. And even more so, given your background, since you seem to be quite the traveler-writer (or the other way around). 🙂

P.S. Savoie is where I spent all my childhood summers with the scouts—when we, little Mediterranean kids from the coast, discovered what mountains were really like. Deep down, I’m actually more of a hiker (a real one, I think) than a traveler. Have a great rest of the evening and thanks again for your messages.
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Whoa! A bit of a traveler, not a writer at all! But for me, it's -Haute- Savoie 😄 Have a great rest of the evening
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust

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