4 friends discover a piece of North India
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Good evening Attila,

I think all countries change, just like the world itself, like us. I still believe that India from 15 or 20 years ago is different from today’s, inevitably. Of course, you’re right—there are strong constants, like a thick substratum, much stronger than in the West, which can give the impression of immobility. But delving into that would start a very long discussion. Where I think you and I would agree, though, is that as tourists, we only perceive the surface of things.

Thanks so much for your comments on the discussion thread.
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Yeah, sorry about that. I mixed up the 73 with the 74. 😏 Have a great rest of your evening.
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Deep down, I hope attitudes are changing. 🙂

Not really, actually... It’s this lack of progress in attitudes that’s holding India back. Especially in the north, especially in Rajasthan... Yes, like I mentioned earlier, things are shifting for couples and marriage, for example, but religion blocks everything. I’m reading the Ramayana right now, which is one of the foundational texts of Hinduism, and it’s helping me understand a lot about the behavior of Indians, across all religions, because they’re influenced by Hindu culture. But it’s like if we still referred to the Bible and the Gospels in our daily lives in the 2000s. And then there are the priorities too... We send research vehicles to the moon, we’re building a high-speed train (for the rich), but garbage collection—and its disposal—still leaves a lot to be desired. Tap water still isn’t drinkable, etc...
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MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Your message immediately reminded me of a memorable evening from my trip there: At my request, my guide had arranged a night "with a local family," which was difficult because it’s not common in India. But I wanted to be able to chat and soak up the atmosphere for an evening.

In the end, we ended up at Dev’s place (I’m still in touch with him) and his wife’s—a well-to-do couple living in the upscale suburbs of Ajmer (between Udaipur and Jaipur). One of my best evenings, the connection between us (the men) was instant. We talked about everything until late into the night, and the conversations were honest and sincere.

He blamed India’s struggles to progress on the caste system, which, although abolished by the constitution in 1950, still permeates daily life. This system, combined with the concept of "karma"—where you’re supposed to accept your current condition in this life to hope for a better one next time—was the biggest obstacle because people don’t aspire to improve their social or material status, so they don’t make the effort to change. And on a national scale, that holds the country back.

Anyway, Dev’s biggest surprise was about my kids—he really pitied me for having three daughters and having to pay future dowries 😅. I remember how shocked he was by the freedom of choice I gave my wife and daughters. A cultural thing!

Dev, for whom life had been kind 😊
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RJ Rjulie95 Globetrotter ·
he really felt sorry for me having 3 daughters

3 daughters? !!!!!! Poor you. And I only have one [;]
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MA Marien33 Veteran ·
he really felt sorry for me having 3 daughters

3 daughters? !!!!!! Poor you. And I only have one 😉

And me, two!
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Your story is really nice! But why do you use the past tense when talking about Dev?

Dev, for whom life had smiled 😁

(Your emojis are terrible 🤪—I prefer VF’s ones)
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
he really felt sorry for me having 3 daughters

3 daughters? !!!!!! Poor you. And I only have one 😉

Are you Indian too? 😂 Truth is, 3 daughters and a son, but I’m only the biological father of two. Though over time, they’ve all become mine. That said, the youngest is now 32, so they’re pretty independent. Well, mostly.
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Your story is really nice! But why do you use the past tense when you talk about Dev?

Dev, for whom life had smiled 😁

(your smileys are so lame 🤪 I prefer VF’s)

I use the past tense because it’s been over 5 years. But you’re right, I could’ve used the present tense since life is still smiling on him (well, according to the latest news).

And my smileys are the ones from my phone—they’re easier to use 😜
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
MI Minadeaca ·
Lovely travel story! I took almost the same route as you four, and your impressions reassure me about the timelessness of India—how "it doesn’t change." I can’t wait to go back, but with a lot more time and freedom.* Thanks for sharing your story. Mina
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
your impressions reassure me about the permanence of India, that "it doesn’t change."

Sorry, but it *does* change! And thank goodness it does! It changes a lot, and fast—year after year... Anita Nair writes (I think it’s in *The Nine Faces of the Heart*): "We’re not staying in the Middle Ages just to please them!" "Them" being us Western tourists.
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RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks Minadeaca, We’re heading back to South India in three months and we can’t wait! 😊
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
"We’re not going to stay in the Middle Ages just to please them!" "Them" being us Western tourists

You’re absolutely right—this quote from Anita Nair reminds me of comments I’ve heard (or read) about Morocco: “What a shame! Before, there was the charm of a dirt track. Now it’s a paved road.”

Yeah... 😕... except now the school bus can actually get through!
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
"We’re not going to stay in the Middle Ages just to please them!" "Them" being us Western tourists

You’re so right—this quote from Anita Nair reminds me of comments I’ve heard or read about Morocco: “What a shame! Before, there was the charm of a dirt track. Now it’s a paved road.”

Yeah... 😕... except now the school bus can get through!

Wait, are there even schools in Morocco? ( ⚠️ 15th degree sarcasm)
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
CA Camif80 ·
So happy to be back on the site reading this amazing travel journal from Rajasthan, which we discovered in February 2020. We were amazed by this independent trip, and as soon as we got back, we planned another one to South India for January 2021 and even bought our flight tickets. Unfortunately, it didn’t happen. But the project isn’t dead—we’re still looking forward to your travel journal!! See you soon, and happy travels. Michel
Michel
MI Minadeaca ·
your impressions reassure me about the permanence of India, that "it doesn’t change."

Sorry, but it *does* change! And thank goodness it does! A lot, and very quickly, year after year... Anita Nair writes—I think it’s in *The Nine Faces of the Heart*—"We’re not going to stay in the Middle Ages just to please them!" "Them" being us Western tourists.

Not so sure—I think India and Indians are all about "slow living," which unfortunately hasn’t caught on in the West. At the same time, it’s good that things change, as long as it’s the right kind of change.
RI RichardXI Regular ·
Thanks Michel! 🙂 I think—well, I hope—that we’ll have just as much fun writing our new travel journal (Tamil Nadu / Kerala in January 2025).
BL Bluequark Veteran ·
Thanks for this really enjoyable travel journal. Kate’s photos are always so lovely.
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Hi there! 🙂 I’m not sure if they will be in the future (a distant one, let’s hope!), but my gear’s getting heavier and heavier to carry when I travel. A lighter, more powerful camera is still really expensive 😕
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
DO Dolma Globetrotter ·
Hi Kate and Richard,

Beautiful writing, stunning photos—this four-handed travel journal is one of the rare invitations to read on VF. It’s also, of course, an invitation to travel to a country you showcase with so much talent...
un chemin et la caresse du vent, alors je pars en voyage...
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Thanks Dolma 🙂 We both had a great time and I’m happy it shows.
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
The two fours? 😛
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
The four of us really enjoyed planning this trip (it was the perfect excuse for plenty of evenings out), and we had such a blast that we booked another flight to India—and started the endless nights all over again 😄.

As for writing this travel journal, I think we were as honest as possible. I had to censor Richard a bit when he wanted to talk about my day in bed, sick and at the end of my rope 😠.

Traveling as a group of four isn’t always easy, especially in a country as intense as India. You have to make small compromises, but the added value is totally worth it and comes with quite a few perks.

Hmm, this could be a great topic for debate in "Thoughts and Reflections"? 😉
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
In a small group of young people, I mostly experienced disagreements while traveling. With you, the vibe clearly clicked, and no one can take those memories away from you.

I can tell you're really inspired on your way to 10,000 posts, and I haven’t checked, but your topic of reflection seems pretty original.
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
In a small group of young people, I mostly experienced disagreements while traveling

Me too! I even discovered the very dark and unmentionable side of some travel companions who, before, were friends

I can tell you're really inspired on your way to 10,000 posts, and I haven't checked, but your topic of reflection seems quite original

I'll think about it... Don't you want to take charge of it? 8,500 posts in 14 years—that’s only about 600 a year! And you, Jojo, you're not far behind... Maybe you've been censored more often than me 😛
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
A trip with 4 people isn’t easy, especially in a "strong" country. You have to make small compromises, but the added value is worth it and offers quite a few advantages. Hey, this could be a topic for debate in "Thoughts and Reflections"? 😉

I’ve been thinking about this for a while 😉 https://voyageforum.com/forum/seul-en-couple-plusieurs-d10639209/
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
8,500 posts in 14 years—that’s only about 600 a year! And you, Jojo, aren’t far behind... Maybe you’ve been censored even more than me 😛

The truest thing is that I’ve mostly censored myself a lot.

Not all truths are worth hearing, and not all are worth saying!

By the way, I’ll note the "Jojo." Our relationship is definitely on good terms, huh?
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
LA Lacalo Globetrotter ·
I just read this beautiful travel journal written by four hands—almost—in one go! This India I’d love to visit someday… The light and pleasant writing complements the photos, or vice versa. And it conveys a personal vision of this complex country. But that’s exactly the role of a travel journal—to give us that personal perspective. Thanks, and I can’t wait for the next one. Bravo Kate for these beautiful photos…
" Nous ne saurons jamais tout le bien qu'un simple sourire peut être capable de faire." Mère Teresa
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Thanks and I’m looking forward to the next one.

If all goes well, in 2 or 3 months 😉
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Well, it's really great to do a travel journal together—I'm loving your photos, Kate, and Richard's writing. I adore your portrait shots—such amazing colors! Personally, I almost never take portraits... I don’t dare ask. But apparently, Hindus love being photographed—it’s really awesome. On the other hand, I’m a little less keen on the sometimes overly "pushy" side. Thanks to both of you—I’m waiting for the next episode! 🙂.
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
But apparently Hindus love getting their photos taken,

Really? Not Muslims? Or Christians? Or Jains? Or Parsis? Or Buddhists? Or Sikhs? Etc...
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JO Jojoone1 Globetrotter ·
You're wrong not to dare. Most people are proud when you show interest in them or think their kids are cute.

There's no harm in asking them nicely. They love it when you show them the result on the camera. In the end, when you thank them, they think they've met a really nice person.
« Tout le monde s'interroge sur comment laisser une meilleure planète à nos enfants, mais on devrait plutôt penser à laisser de meilleurs enfants pour notre planète. » Clint Eastwood
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
But apparently Hindus love having their photos taken,

Oh really? Not Muslims? Nor Christians? Nor Jains? Nor Parsis? Nor Buddhists? Nor Sikhs? Etc...

I don’t know, I rarely take portrait photos of people. It was just a remark that was certainly a bit too affirmative—I should’ve phrased it more as a question. But when I see Kate’s amazing portrait photos, it makes me want to try that kind of photography. There really wasn’t any hidden meaning behind the comment.
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my humor—maybe a bit dubious—about the term

les hindous

Hindus are the Indians who practice Hinduism. The inhabitants of India are Indians...
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RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my—maybe dubious—humor about the term

les hindous

Hindus are the Indians who practice Hinduism. The inhabitants of India are Indians...

My bad 🤪
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
I love your portrait photos—the colors are amazing. Personally, I almost never take portraits... I don’t dare ask. But apparently, Hindus love getting photographed; it’s really great.

Thanks for stopping by our travel journal! 🙂 My favorite subject is street photography. People are essential to it—otherwise, it wouldn’t be very interesting. I get your hesitation, but it’s just a matter of getting used to it. In India, it’s easy—Indians love getting photographed. In fact, they pose, which sometimes annoys me when I’m going for spontaneity. 😉
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my humor—maybe a bit dubious—about the term

les hindous

Hindus are Indians who practice Hinduism. The inhabitants of India are Indians...

Hi, In Isabelle’s defense, the humor wasn’t dubious—it just really wasn’t obvious in the message. 😅
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
I love your portrait photos, the colors are amazing. Personally, I almost never take portraits... I don’t dare ask. But apparently, Hindus love being photographed, it’s really great.

Thanks for stopping by our travel journal 🙂 My favorite subject is street photography. People are essential to it, otherwise it wouldn’t be very interesting. I get why you’d feel awkward, but it’s just a matter of getting used to it. In India, it’s easy—Indians love being photographed. In fact, they pose, which sometimes annoys me because it kills the spontaneity 😉

I don’t do street photography. When I’m in a city, I take photos of buildings, skylines, and do fine art. But no street or portraits. True, when people pose, it’s not natural, and if you don’t ask, it’s a "stolen" photo—that’s why I’m really not comfortable with it. At the end of March, I’m doing a week-long street photography workshop. We’ll see if I feel more at ease after 😊
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my humor—maybe a bit dubious—about the term

Hindus

Hindus are Indians who practice Hinduism. The people of India are Indians...

Hi, In Isabelle’s defense, the humor wasn’t dubious—it just wasn’t obvious in the message ¾

True, I didn’t get the remark. Actually, I didn’t even realize I’d mixed up Hindu and Indian 🤦
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
MO Montagnard74 Globetrotter ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my—maybe questionable—humor about the term

Hindus

Hindus are the Indians who practice Hinduism. The inhabitants of India are Indians...

Hi, In Isabelle’s defense, the humor wasn’t questionable—it just wasn’t obvious to pick up in the message …

Yeah, I didn’t get the remark either. Actually, I didn’t even realize I’d mixed up Hindu and Indian 😅

You really should take your Nikon to those parts!
"Le véritable voyage de découverte ne consiste pas à chercher de nouveaux paysages, mais à avoir de nouveaux yeux." Marcel Proust
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Sorry if you didn’t catch my—maybe questionable—humor about the term

Hindus

Hindus are the Indians who practice Hinduism. The inhabitants of India are Indians...

Hello, In Isabelle’s defense, the humor wasn’t questionable but just really not obvious to pick up in the message ¾

True, I didn’t get the remark. Actually, I didn’t even realize I’d made a mistake between Hindu and Indian 🤦

You really should take your Nikon to those parts!

Why not? Christelle’s beautiful travel journal and the one she’s working on make me want to go 😊 The upside will be not having to lug 10kg of gear on my back 😅
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
It was by following Rouquine’s trail—a naive soul who got taken for a canned hunt—that I’m back here. I’d read this travel journal along the Ganges (which, as everyone knows, doesn’t flow through Rajasthan) without chiming in. Richard and you make a winning pair, and we’d love to send you not to some unknown land, but rather to the well-trodden spots for your unique/multiple perspectives.
AL Aleph240758 Veteran ·
I’m wrapping up my travel journal on Cambodia before bringing my family to Rajasthan, and then heading back there for new adventures. Every region is beautiful and unique, and the hospitality is exceptional.
Qui a l'habitude de voyager sait qu'il vient toujours un moment où il faut partir... Paulo Coelho
VO Voyajou Globetrotter ·
If we're going to split hairs... (or "thread the flies in flight" as you say where you're from 😛)

Hindus are Indians who practice Hinduism.

And what about those who practice Hinduism in other countries (including the 500,000 South African citizens who aren’t Indian)?

The inhabitants of India are Indians...

No, it’s the citizens of India who are Indians, not its inhabitants.

Fair enough?
MA Marien33 Veteran ·
If it's about nitpicking... (or threading flying diptera, as they say where you're from 😛)

Hindus are Indians who practice Hinduism.

And what about those who practice Hinduism in other countries (including the 500,000 South African citizens who aren't Indian)?

The inhabitants of India are Indians...

No, it's the citizens of India who are Indians, not its inhabitants.

Got it now?

Got it—I actually realized I’d used the wrong word after sending my message, but laziness won out... It’s not about nitpicking to distinguish between Hindu and Indian, especially in a time when being Indian is equated with being Hindu, ignoring all the citizens 😉 who aren’t... I think I remember Richard mentioning this very point in this same travel journal. Especially nowadays, with the current situation between Hindus and Muslims, who are increasingly ostracized. Just ask our friend Pagaljavab if it’s nitpicking to distinguish between Hindu and Indian when talking about Indian citizens.
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KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Why not, this beautiful travel journal and Christelle’s current one make me want to go there 😊

Tomorrow I’ll start posting our travel journal about South India. A different take on the country: Tamil Nadu and Kerala are very different from Rajasthan. That way, you’ll have a little idea to help you make your choice ;) A week later, I’m still overwhelmed by everything I experienced...
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
Tomorrow I’ll start posting our travel journal about South India. A different take on the country: Tamil Nadu and Kerala are so unlike Rajasthan. That way you’ll get a little idea to help you decide 😉

Awesome! Thanks Kate 🙂

A week later and I’m still overwhelmed by everything I experienced...

That’s kinda why India has always stayed in the "someday" pile for me... I’m really nervous about my emotions—I know I’m super sensitive, and I’m not getting any better with age .
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
Richard and you make a winning pair, and we’d love to send you not to some unknown land, but rather to popular spots for your unique/multiple perspectives.

Thanks Voyou ;) Absolutely, I agree—send us wherever you want! We love prepping, exploring, and sharing the story.
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
KA Kate Globetrotter ·
It’s kind of one of the reasons why India has always remained a "project" idea for me... I’m really apprehensive about my emotions—I know I’m very sensitive, and I’m not getting any better with age .

I don’t know if we’re talking about the same emotions. I wasn’t any more shocked by the poverty than the poverty I encounter just steps from my home. The real hardship. Yet, that’s the question everyone asked me when I got back! Dirt, poverty, noise... I met a happy, smiling people, full of energy. Very complex. Endearing. That’s what I take away from it, me, a modest little traveler, light-years from truly knowing a country and its people. My emotions manifested in several ways: a deep sense of well-being, a kind of spirituality, an unprecedented adventure, letting go, delight... disoriented by the differences and contrasts, like a sponge that absorbs too much, then emptied, rinsed.
Mes photos sur Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/153304262@N05/albums "Le Temps nous égare. Le Temps nous étreint. Le Temps nous est gare. Le Temps nous est train".
RO Rouquine38 Globetrotter ·
It’s partly one of the reasons why India has always remained a "project" in my mind... I’m really dreading my emotions—I know I’m very sensitive, and I’m not getting any better with age .

I don’t know if we’re talking about the same emotions. I wasn’t any more shocked by the poverty than the poverty I see just a few steps from my home. The real hardship. Yet, that’s the question everyone asked me when I got back! Dirt, poverty, noise... I encountered a happy, smiling people, full of energy. So complex. Endearing. That’s what I take away from it—me, a modest little traveler, light-years from truly knowing a country and its people. My emotions came out in different ways: a deep sense of well-being, a kind of spirituality, an unprecedented adventure, letting go, delight... thrown off by the differences and contrasts, like a sponge that absorbs too much, then drained, rinsed.

Indeed, those weren’t the kind of emotions I was dreading. Thanks, Kate, for sharing your feelings and emotions. I know full well that when you travel to a country, you can’t truly get to know its people or the place itself—we only skim the surface. But sometimes, we can still feel very strong emotions that might come from just a simple glance, a gesture, or a particular situation.
"Voyager est un triple plaisir : l'attente, l'éblouissement et le souvenir." Ilka Chase

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